Low key one of the most stressful things I’ve ever done. And we’re taking the easy way out and having a softplay party.

There’s still so much to do. Invites, gift bags, food and dietary requirements, cake! And then you’ve got all the other worries…what if no one turns up, what if everyone has a bad time? What if my kid locks up and spends the entire time crying and/or not wanting to play?

It’s going to be okay right???

  • Patch@feddit.ukEnglish
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    9 months ago

    No shame in doing a soft play party. No point making things harder than they already are. My son’s getting a “football party” this year; same deal, a nice club organises the venue and the entertainment, all we’ve got to provide is the catering and the party bags.

    Did have a bit of drama last week when son suddenly declares “I want my friend Ro Ro at my birthday party”. Literally never heard of Ro Ro before this point, but now he’s apparently one of his best friends and the wobbly lip was deployed. Cue several days of running round in a panic to change the booking for one more guest (which took it up a price bracket…) and trying to figure out how to contact Ro Ro’s parents with no notice…

    It’s going to be okay right???

    It’s going to be ok. It’s just a soft play session. Either your kids will have a whale of a time like always, or they won’t be in the mood and they’ll have a better time another time. They won’t set anywhere near as much importance on the day “going well” as you do. As long as it features a cake and a round of Happy Birthday at some point you’re grand.

  • ᴇᴍᴘᴇʀᴏʀ 帝@feddit.ukEnglish
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    9 months ago

    As a friend was taking his son and his friends to a retro video game arcade today to celebrate his 13th birthday - I helpful related this story:

    My brother took his son and friends to one of those big trampoline places. As lead dad for the day he’d envisioned every disaster (knee to the nose, elbow to the temple, getting trapped between trampolines, etc) so he was very nervous but it all went swimmingly, not even a bruise. So outside someone suggested a kick-about. The first kick of the ball hit one kid square in the face, he went down like a felled oak, bounced his head off the floor,.got knocked spark out and had to go straight to hospital to be checked over. He was fine but a bit sore.

    Not sure what the moral of that story is: quite whilst you are ahead? You can plan for disasters but something can come at you from left field? You got away with it if no-one suffers a lasting brain injury? Duck?

    • SbisasCostlyTurnover@feddit.ukOPEnglish
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      9 months ago

      Men plan, god laughs.

      We actually looked at one of those trampoline places. Issue was that I’d feel very unsure about having my toddler running around with Gen-pop (because they want you to buy the entire place out if you want a ‘private’ party. Maybe when he’s older…

      • cynar@lemmy.worldEnglish
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        9 months ago

        A number of them seem to have “toddler” mornings. Basically it’s cheap for a preschool child and adult to go in. Free bounce time starts later. Basically you get an hour or so without older kids, if you’re willing to turn up early.

        My daughter is now as school, but loved going to trampolining. We’ve apparently also created a dare devil, willing to take on anything.

    • SbisasCostlyTurnover@feddit.ukOPEnglish
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      9 months ago

      She’s turning 6 in a few weeks.

      After months of begging and begging me to get the softplay party, the second (and I mean, literally has a I ended the call booking it in) she goes ‘Daddy, I don’t want a softplay party anymore’.

      Nah. YOU WILL HAVE FUN CHILD!