I’m 34, and i feel hopeless, ive been in relationships that don’t work out and i end up hurting myself, and i find it really hard to find someone who likes the same things as me, and i blame it on my socioeconomic status and my looks. I try to find somewhere to put the blame, but it’s obvious that it’s me.
Start going out for you not for them
This. It’s like interviewing. Even if you really need the work, you’ll be more confident and more engaging if you approach the interview like you are vetting them