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Cake day: July 31st, 2023

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  • To me it sounds like you’re saying this:

    Hey Lemmy, I want to learn how to ride a bicycle but I don’t actually want to ride a bicycle as part of learning how to ride one. I also don’t want to make any mistakes learning how to ride a bicycle.

    If someone came up to you and said that, would you think that’s reasonable?


  • What’s your apprehension about going out and meeting people to help you find what you’re looking for?

    I mean by all means jot down a couple of deal breakers for yourself when considering a partner (I.e. non-smoker, doesn’t physically abuse me, no drug addiction etc) but there’s only so far you can go with theorising a partner.

    People will surprise you in my experience. Behaviour or characteristics you thought you really didn’t like suddenly becomes irrelevant when it’s the right person.