You can change that in system settings on KDE

System settings -> Software Update -> Apply system updates immediately

Not sure if it’s the same on GNOME

Based on the loss of the backwards facing camera on the other front flap, I’m gonna say that one probably looked about the same

They’ll definitely know. Microsoft’s last update for Windows 10 will make sure to add as many notices, popups and scary alerts as possible.

And as a result plenty will care, particularly those who aren’t tech savvy. If you’ve got relatives for whom you are their go-to IT person, be prepared.