Which isn’t too bad if you can stay calm and relax tbh. Slow deep breaths let you feel like you’re doing something to continue your survival without the panic of frantic breathing. Takes a bit of practice but honestly not as bad as it seems.

I was made for sucking dick and I’m sad I don’t do it more often. Haven’t had one since the start of june

Mrow meow

When I’m sick I don’t really have the initiative to be horny, I think. If someone else initiated it though…

“Honey, grab the lube, I need you to take my temperature!”

Rectal carrots are great even without the privacy benefits

Honestly can’t really tell from the picture that your shirts pink. Is it really pastel and just doesn’t show up well in the picture or am I slightly colorblind

.ml moment

Friends sending me pictures of their cats. Those fem self euphoria moments. Digging into dinner after not eating all day without realizing. Snuggling my face into my stuffed animals after shaving. Remembering someone caring for me, though that can hurt just as much.

Eh, misspelling is easy to do.

Now I have a bit more function, I want to address this. Being locked into myself while doom scrolling on the couch is not enjoyable. It’s not something I want to or should enjoy. It is distinctly unpleasant and a reminder of just how much I am a slave to my fucked up brains constant need for stimulation. I have things I will enjoy and WANT to go do and fucking can’t because I’m stuck to the couch or stuck in my chair, doing something that provides my brain immediately activity. It fucking sucks. And, when I talk about how ADHD preventing me from doing stuff sucks, there’s always someone who comes along saying something along the lines of “your productivity doesn’t define your worth =D it’s ok to not do anything!” And like. I understand what you’re saying and that you’re trying to help and that that’s probably something that’s positive to a lot of people but you just don’t understand that it’s not a job or a hobby or chores not getting done that sucks, it’s being a nonfunctional human being that’s the problem and that that positive platitude applied to THAT problem is saying “stop trying to be a functional human being =D” and that is so incredibly frustrating.

I’m sorry, I understand the positive message you’re trying to spread but it’s… When someone complains about not being functional, telling them to enjoy their misery is actively unhelpful.

Yay, more tankie shit =/

That’s also just the natural lifecycle of live service games. The player base spikes after an update, and trails off again as time goes on

Problem: I’ve never cared about my appearance before and have no idea what I like or a starting point for trying stuff

Listening to others fashion advice gives me that starting point to begin exploring! Sorry I know you don’t mean that in a dismissive way, I just wanted to chime in that fashion advice is still worth discussing, it’s just not something to hold yourself to =D

Born to yo and I want to haiiii

I love this post soooooo much

NGL if I were him I would a killed myself in the first or second episode

I mean, if I were a school shooter, I doubt I’d realize you didn’t actually get hit, I’d probably be looking for new targets

Ah yes, tourists, well known for all the squirrels they bring on every trip

Sure! Best practices vary to your application. I’m a dev, so I’m used to configuring stuff for local env use. In prod, archiving is definitely nice so you can track back even through heavy logging. Though, tbh, if you’re applications getting used by that many people a db logging system is probably just straight better