• Siethron@lemmy.world
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      5 days ago

      I (a cishet man) went to sixs flags Halloween thing several times in my late teens. Every time I went a different random girl grabbed my ass.

      I’ve spent YEARS pondering the universes message in this

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        4 days ago

        It might’ve been that you had a friendly vibe. You looked like someone who wouldn’t cause a scene, so it’d be safer to mess with you. Add a healthy dose of Halloween anonymity to thrill seeking party girls, and you getting very unlucky.

        I’m sorry that happened. Sexual assault is fucked up, no matter who is involved.

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          3 days ago

          Oh I don’t mind, I actually have an open everyone gets one squeeze policy, hard to communicate that though. I worked hard on that thing and from my perspective it’s not a strictly sexual thing.

          That said you are right and I don’t encourage people to randomly grab butts out there. Actually don’t touch people at all without good reason. But if you do run into me specifically and you can confirm its me, feel free to give it a squeeze, I consent.